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My List of Most Incredible Beaches! ….So far

Summer is almost here, so I thought I’d share my list of favorite beaches!

#1 - Trunk Bay on Saint John island which is part of the United States Virgin Islands.  The sand is so white, the water is so clean and blue, the overall feeling there is so peaceful and serene.  They have some amazing marine life for snorkeling as well.  You won’t find a better beach within the United States for sure……trust me!  You won’t find large crowds here normally and you have to take a fairy to get to the island, so it almost feels like you’re on a private island which was so refreshing for an introvert as you can imagine.  The scenery of Trunk Bay is what brought me there, but the overall experience is what captivated me! 

#2 - Red Beach, Santorini, Greece 🇬🇷 - OMG, guys!  This beach was amazing and being that is was actually “red”, I had to see it.  It’s not close to hotels or resorts so you have to travel to get there. You also have to hike to get there and if you know me, you know I love a good hike! Once you’re there, you’re in awe. Red rocks everywhere, but clear water!  If you go to Santorini, this is a must see!  Thank me later!

#3 - Tulum in Mexico 🇲🇽 is breathtakingly beautiful and must see as well!  There are ruins right near the beach which bring about an indescribable feeling and it’s so peaceful and bright.

#4 - Seven Mile Beach, Grand Cayman Islands...boy was this beach just what I needed at the time!  Very relaxing!  Gorgeous with warm water of course with many cute crabs walking around lol. 

#5 - Negril, Jamaica 🇯🇲 is also one of my favorites.  I went more than 10 years ago so I’m speaking on an old experience, but it’s so relaxing and beautiful.  If you go to Jamaica, go see Negril!

#6 - South Beach Miami despite the eye candy and absurdness you might find amongst the humans you may encounter, Miami beach is still amazingly beautiful and the water is warm!  Plus people-watching here has to be one of the most entertaining!

#7 - Puerto Rico’s beaches are also on my list!  Like other Carribean beaches, the water is warm and the people are beautiful.  When I visited Puerto Rico, it was during spring break for a girls trip with my cousin and friends.  We decided to ride on one of those banana boats being pulled by a speed boat and boy was that an experience in itself, lol.   One of the girls keep urging the driver to go faster and sure enough we all flew off.  I had to swim to my cousin how was in a panic and cannot swim, but in the end, we have an amazing time!  I got to see where my grandfather/family lived and died so yes I’m part Boriqua 🇵🇷 😉.

I’m going to add more and make changes to this list as time goes on, I’m sure!

Signed,


Shygirl 



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Fun…In an unexpected place…

a trip to Louisville, Kentucky

April 26, 2019

Louisville, Kentucky

Impossible is just a big word thrown around by small men who find it easier to live in the world they’ve been given than to explore the power they have to change it. Impossible is not a fact. It’s an opinion. Impossible is not a declaration. It’s a dare. Impossible is potential. Impossible is temporary. Impossible is nothing.” – Muhammad Ali

The birth place of the GOAT did not disappoint even though, honestly, I was not looking forward to visiting.  This trip was taken because of a new job, in my chosen profession, Healthcare Administration, but I was not happy about a conference trip.  I was super nervous and it probably showed.  Plus, I would be the only black person in our group and you know these types of settings aren’t the most settling I should say.  And the Kentucky Derby??? Don’t get me wrong, I love animals, therefore, I love horses 🐴 .  But I wasn’t really interested in watching races/gambling my hard earned money and dressing up wearing big hats.  I wasn’t looking forward to being forced to be “social”.

We arrived on a Friday and went straight out to our first night at Churchill Downs.  That night, dinner drinks and conversations with new people.  I have to admit, it was nice seeing everyone, including my people, dressed up having a good time and hearing the excitement after each race.  I even put in my bet for a couple races just for the fun of it.  The food was really good, drinks were too.  The Kentucky Derby was definitely more than what you see on TV, I guess that’s why many people even celebrities attend.  Not bad at all.

The following day was the first day of the conference which was as it should be, boring and exhausting for an introvert.  But that night we had dinner at one of the best restaurants in Louisville, Proof on Main.  The food was really really good and so was the service!  I also enjoyed meeting the people I normally only speak with remotely.  There was a nice mixture of personalities at the table that always helps me stay entertained.  Next, we did a little bar-hopping to end the night.

The next day, I was able to squeeze in a visit to Jim Beam Still House for bourbon tasting.  This brought on my love for Jim Beam Apple, straight, might I add!  Also, had to buy a couple souvenirs where I met Kernel Sanders and saw some street art of jockeys 🏇.  Louisville was full of history and southern culture.  I loved how proud the city was of Muhammad Ali.  There was some type of tribute almost anywhere you went.  I have to say I liked the vibe there, but I probably wouldn’t want to live there because of the racist history, just being honest. 🤷🏽‍♀️

The best part of the trip, however, was our trip to the Louisville Mega Cavern for zip-lining.  It was my first time zip lining and it was amazing.  At first thought, it seemed scary to zip line thru dark, sometimes pitch black caves, but I must say it was so much fun and I would definitely recommend it to anyone visiting Louisville.  There were some platforms we had to climb in the middle of these caves very high up, no railings and a little shaky but if you can get past it, you’re in for the ride of your life!  The Louisville Mega Cavern has the world’s only fully underground zip lines 10 stories below ground level.  It was once a lime stone mine that became abandoned and turned into this zip-lining attraction.  Those caves were definitely a bit eerie and I’m going to pretend I don’t see those orbs in our group photo. 😳


But basically, don’t go to Louisville without visiting the Muhammad Ali Center and the Louisville Mega Cavern for zip-lining!


Signed,


Shygirl



Why Introverts should do Coachella or any Festival

APRIL 12, 2019

Location: Coachella, CA

Since festival season is upon us, I thought I’d share some insights from an introvert’s perspective.  It took me some years before I even considered going to Coachella or any festival.  When it was brought up, I’d immediately dismiss the thought being that I don’t like large crowds.  I had a couple conversations recently with people who don’t have much of an interest in going to Coachella or any festival for that matter. I’m here to tell you…..go!

 

I finally went to last year’s #Coachella2018 or should I say, #Beychella2018, and the experience was indescribable to say the least!  The energy was amazing!  Beyonce’s performance was the best I’ve ever seen and there were so many artists to cater to every genre interest out there.  Another one of my favorite performances was Vince Staples (snippet provided on my IG).  The energy, the displays, and music was amazing live!  Artists truly bring their best to Coachella and it shows.  I was also introduced to one of my now favorite artists 6lack while there.  I saw most of my favorite artists like Jorja Smith, Jidenna, Post Malone (yea I said it), Miguel, Eminem, Cardi B, The Weeknd, and the list goes on.  This was probably the best Coahella ever and it’s definitely worth the hundreds or even over a thousand you’ll spend depending on whether you want VIP or general admission. (sorry to admit it)


The food variety is also amazing!  Want a drink?  Of course there are many stands with alcoholic beverages.  Charging stations, restrooms, water.  You have everything you need to spend a whole day in the mist of music you love.  If you are more reserved, quiet, or private, but love music like me, I would highly recommend going to a festival because it’s likely to be an amazing experience despite all the common negative aspects.  Yes, there’s a lot of people, lines, heat, but the rewards like bomb ass music, performances, experiences, food and more make it well worth it! Lastly, if you like to people watch like me, it can be epic at festivals, lol.


Here are my do’s and don’ts for Introverts:

~Go with one or two close friends or a significant other.  No large groups!

~Stay in an Airbnb, not a nearby hotel and definitely don’t do the onsite tents.  You will need your quiet/alone time to recharge for the next day.

~Try new/different food items, there will be plenty to choose from.

~Blankets, collapsible bottles, sunglasses, bandanas, and whatever else makes you feel good in social settings *wink wink*


Don’t fear it, conquer it!  Say, “I am Fearless” and have a great weekend!

Signed,

Shygirl