Mexico City
So let’s talk about one of my NEW favorite places! Mexico City!
Mexico City definitely is a special place that grabs you and pulls you in. There are places in the world that just have it. I can’t quite explain it but if you’ve been and explored I’m sure you can relate. From the scenery, the amazing plants and trees, the FOOD, the service and more. I could literally live in this place. A perfect day here? Wake up, grab some pastries at a corner bakery, lunch and tea at a local restaurant with a patio with your dog (so many people with dogs!). Next a walk at the park. Dinner at a 5 star restaurant (honestly, there are too many to mention!). Lastly, drinks at one of the top bars known around the world!
I went to Mexico City a couple days before Christmas and stayed until a couple days after New Years and when I tell you this was one of the best trips of my life, it truly was. I honestly can’t wait to go back.
I have to say, it’s best to learn some of the basic phases in Spanish to have the best experience. About 20% or less of the people in service speak English so before you go hop on Primsleur or Babbel and practice. My most used phase was “pardon, solo hablo un poco espanol” lol! Funny story, we go into a live Jazz lounge. We ordered guacamole and our waitress didn’t speak much English and us being nice non Spanish speaking head shakers, just shook our heads yes to a couple questions. We’re sitting there enjoying the amazing live music I must say and she brings out thee gauc. It’s pretty dark so we can barely see and we start eating. I taste something a little different and slightly crunchy and I see something dark inside the gauc. I grab my phone to shine a little light and OMG, there’s crickets in our guacamole and I think I may have eaten one. I was traumatized! lol
Guacamole w/crickets
Be careful! Crickets are a normal ingredient in Mexico. Great source of protein supposedly.
We stayed in La Condesa and Roma Norte. Both are really nice areas for visitors to stay. La Condensa was a little more quiet but had many nice restaurants and shops to visit. Roma Norte is a well know area with older buildings and great restaurants and bars to visit. The airbnbs are pretty nice in these areas. Honestly, wherever you stay, there’s usually at least a couple restaurants and shops within walking distance. BUT! Ubers are only $2-$10 tops! It’s very cheap, so don’t worry about renting a car. Plus, cops in Mexico can spot a tourist driving very quickly and may stop you and force you to pay a “fee” for just being in Mexico 🤷🏽♀️.
I also stayed at the Sofitel Mexico City Reforma during New Year’s Eve and New Year’s Day. This was probably one of the best hotels I’ve ever stayed in. The service was amazing from the doorman to housekeeping, the decor was very nice, the room was immaculate. I went to the spa for a massage and it was probably one of, if not the best I’ve ever had. I actually felt like the place was super clean. I highly recommend Sofitel even if it’s just for one night. Their roof top bar was also nice with breathtaking views!
Here is my list of spots I recommend while in Mexico City. I’m dropping true gems here so save this!
Breakfast/Brunch:
Mandolina Polanco
Ojo De Aqua
Maque
Chillpa (create your own Chilaquiles)
FRITUUR
Bakery/Cafe:
Panaderia Rosetta
Bou
Shops:
Cardon
Headquarter
Goodbye Folk Vintage Boutique (amazing vintage finds)
180 degree Shop (super cute stuff)
Churros:
Churreria El Moro
Markets:
Bazar Resiliente
Mercado de Artesanias La Ciudadela
Roma Bazar
El Bazar Sabado
(Amazing Art Market, every Saturday)
at the El Bazar Sabado
Lunch/Dinner:
Maximo
Pujol
Contramar
Rosa de Negra
Ryoshi
Cityzen (views!)
Taqueria Orinoco (the Inn & Out of Mexican food)
Belmundo
Quintonil
Huset
Alba Cocina Local
Bars:
Licoreria Limantour (get the Gauc!)
Xaman Bar
Casa Franca
Restaurante Rosetta
Tlecan Mezcaleria
Hanky Panky (speakeasy, looks like a small Mexican restaurant on the outside)
Must Visits:
Xochilmilco (canals and colorful boats, drinks, mariachi bands)
Chapultepec Castle
Any of the beautiful parks! Like Parque Espana or Parque Mexico.
Please keep in mind the food in Mexico City is very cheap in comparison to the US. You’ll probably spend less than half as much for dinner and drinks majority of the time.
I want to also mention that at least in the areas I stayed and visited, there are many Americans living in Mexico City. The natives are very nice and patient with tourists. I took a couple walks alone in La Condesa and Roma Norte and felt completely safe. I walked to Walmart for groceries with no issues.
Halfway through my trip we went to Xochilmilco for an Airbnb experience we booked. It was a group trip with about 8-10 others. Before you head off there’s shops and restaurants for a quick bite. It included tequila and mezcal tasting, lunch, a stop at a bar in the middle of no where (best margarita I’ve ever had!), mariachi band (extra cost), and a chance to view the sacred salamanders native only to the fresh waters of the Xochilmilco lake complex. These boats are operated and driven by young locals some as young as 11 or 12 I believe. It’s amazing how tough these kids are pushing these boats along the waterway. I highly suggest giving them an extra tip! Xochilmilco is a must see in my opinion because you learn about the history and get to enjoy the colorful boats along with others in good spirits!
The Chapultepec Castle was also amazing! The history, the architecture, the decor, and the views are incredible here. Take a day or afternoon to go immerse yourself, I promise it’s worth it.
The one thing I was most afraid to do was try the street food. I still can’t recommend it but if you’re in the mood to take a chance, go ahead and try the street food there. I tried some tacos and they were actually really good! I can’t even lie, I was so scared and just knew I would get sick. But I actually didn’t! I was careful about not drinking any water that was not purified. I have to admit I did not avoid the ice as I was told but I didn’t get sick. I think it’s different for everyone so be careful! Even in the shower or washing your face, do not drink the water. I also drink some probiotic drinks in the days before my trip to help.
The Bars, Bars, Bars! I loved the drinks in Mexico City as well. Who doesn’t love a good margarita and when I tell you you’ll have the best margarita ever here, it’s true! Limantour had one of my favorite drinks of my trip. Each drink recipe is different and this bar is ranked as one of the best in the world. So I highly recommend having a couple drinks here. An unexpected surprise?? The guac is amazing!
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My favorite drink! Forgot the name, sorry…but it wasn’t one of the specials and it was a margarita on the last page…
All and all Mexico City is one of my favorite places and if you haven’t been, I highly recommend!
Castillo de Chapultepec
Blaxit: I'm Leaving America
Blaxit: I'm leaving America
Happy New Year/2021 and Fearless Friday!
I think I can speak for everyone when I say 2020 was a tough year. From Kobe to Covid to Chadwick to the election, it was a whole big mess.
For today’s blog post, I’m going to talk about a different fear of mine. This fear is probably shared widely among my fellow black mothers, sisters, daughters, etc. It’s the fear of losing any black man or boy in your life to police brutality or racial injustice. There’s been one “Karen” after another carelessly calling police on blacks for literally doing nothing while police terrorize black people and end up killing them over $20. I have two black sons and I’m terrified of what could happen if they ever have to encounter the police.
“Being born here in America doesn’t make you an American. Why, if birth made you American, you wouldn’t need any legislation; you wouldn’t need any amendments to the Constitution…I don’t see any American dream; I see an American nightmare.” - Malcolm X
I’ve probably been thinking about moving out of the country since even before Mike Brown’s murder. I just hate the fact that my ancestors were forced to come here and into slavery, went through Jim Crow, and were forced to fight wars for a country that hates us, but we are still dealing with entire systems designed for our failure and on top of all this, we’re being killed literally for doing nothing by the people sent to “protect and serve”. My dad was drafted for the Vietnam War, was injured in battle and sent home only to deal with ptsd and for what??? This country does not deserve everything we brought to the table and don’t deserve our black children being a part of the future in my opinion. If I had it my way my children and grandchildren would not live in America. So these thoughts and fears made me do a little research and I’ve made my list (in progress) of countries I find the most appealing for us to move to.
Accra, Ghana
Ghana 🇬🇭
The first thing that comes to mind is that Akwasi Agyeman, chief executive of the Ghana Tourism Authority called to Black Americans saying ‘come home, we’ll help you build a life here’. Ghana has been inviting us for decades and although it’s a pretty young country, they are making strides to make things as comfortable as possible for blacks wanting to leave America. Some current expats are attesting to great rooftops, a beautiful shoreline and uniquely sweet pineapples. And if there’s one fruit I DO love, it’s pineapples!
“While “Blaxit”—the term used to describe the migration of Black Americans to other countries to escape U.S. racism—has been more modest than expected in the wake of the 2016 election, the number of African-Americans relocating to Accra, the capital of Ghana, is on the rise, with up to 5,000 Black American expats living there now.”
Phi Phi Islands, Thailand
Thailand 🇹🇭
A beautiful country in Asia that offers the TEFL (Teaching English as a Foreign Language) programs for Americans to teach English in local schools. “What makes the States beautiful is what some people in the U.S. are trying to eliminate—which is diversity.” - Frantzces who explains that the only challenge she faces as an immigrant in Thailand as keeping connections and long flights to America. Thailand is also known for very low prices when compared to America so the dollar goes a long way.
Costa Rica 🇨🇷
After visiting Costa Rica a few years back, I fell in love the place to be quite honest, the vast nature and beauty, the wildlife, the people, the vibe there is great. Pura Vida! A common saying in Costa Rica meaning Pure Life! Costa Rica is known as one of Latin’s most peaceful nations, politically stable and has been without an army for over 60 years. Although, there’s known discrimination against Afro Caribbeans, there’s little if any discrimination against African Americans. Establishing a business is very popular for people immigrating to Costa Rica, because when you do and you keep a certain amount of employees, you’re able to gain citizenship.
London Bridge
United Kingdom 🇬🇧
Even though I know I’d never move to the UK, I wanted to mention it here because I heard on multiple occasions that many blacks have moved here and have had overall good experiences here. I’m not interested though only due to the gloominess and weather. I met a guy who lived in the UK for years and I was told that using the “N” word in public is against the law here. Racism isn’t nonexistent, however, there are laws against and it’s not tolerated in the UK.
Some of my other honorable mentions include Trinidad and Tobago 🇹🇹 , New Zealand 🇳🇿 , South Africa 🇿🇦, and Belize 🇧🇿 .
I’d love to hear from others on this topic! Please comment here or on IG what places I should consider adding to my list.
Hoping for a Prosperous year ahead to everyone! 🤗😘
P.S. Did you know that….
Nina Simone called America the “United Snakes of America”, and lived in Switzerland, the Netherlands, Liberia, Barbados , and Blegium. Asked that her ashes be spread in several African countries..
Drayton lives in Trinidad and Tobago…
Mos Def went to South Africa fed up with inequality and racism…
James Baldwin lived in Paris…
Langston Huges was part of a expatriate community in London…
References :
https://www.washingtonpost.com/world/africa/ghana-to-black-americans-come-home-well-help-you-build-a-life-here/2020/07/03/1b11a914-b4e3-11ea-9a1d-d3db1cbe07ce_story.html
https://travelnoire.com/black-and-abroad-living-and-working-in-thailand
https://www.essence.com/news/is-blaxit-for-you/
https://www.theroot.com/5-places-black-people-can-move-to-when-they-ve-had-enou-1790860514
https://www.thrillist.com/travel/nation/best-countries-for-american-expats
Wow Skin Science Shampoo and Conditioner
Hey loves!
I was sent Wow Skin Science’s Shampoo and Conditioner to try and review.
Wow Skin Science’s Apple Cider Vinegar Shampoo and Organic Virgin Coconut Oil Conditioner
I’ve heard about the benefits of using Apple Cider in cleansing products. I know it helps to give your scalp a more balanced ph level and helps with the production of natural oils from the body. It also helps clear the residue and grime from the scalp helping prevent buildup. They send you two large bottles of product which was plenty even for me. My hair is very thick so I tend to use a generous amount of both shampoo and conditioner. My hair has been pretty dry and lifeless for a few days prior to washing. I also occasionally get dandruff especially when I have my hair in protective styles for long period of time like now. Normally, I’ve been using the Maui Moisture shampoo and conditioner and it hasn’t been cleaning my scalp and hair very well so I’m excited to try this out. The conditioner has organic virgin coconut oil which also has great benefits for dry hair.
My before picture:
I used a very generous amount of shampoo on my scalp and hair. I made sure to take my time and massage it in very well. I payed special attention to the top middle part of my head and scalp that tends to be most dry and flaky. The shampoo lathered very easily and I could feel how clean it was making my hair very early on. I rinsed the shampoo out after a couple minutes.
I then applied a generous amount of conditioner especially because my hair is generally dry and brittle. I let it sit in my hair for a little over 5 minutes. I rinsed it out as I finger detangled it and there wasn’t as much slip as I would like but I think it’s because of how well the shampoo cleansed my hair. This is why I don’t shampoo my hair often because for me it strips my hair of natural oils. It is necessary to shampoo my hair at least once a month, however.
After towel drying, my hair was very clean and my scalp very clear. I loved how it brought my waves back better than before. My hair felt healthier and refreshed. My hair even felt stronger. As my hair dried, I could tell the level of clean affects the natural wave pattern. The cleaner my hair, the more defined my waves appear.
After pictures:
My hair looks healthier and more moisturized…
My Scalp is clear and looks healthier…
I highly recommend Wow Science’s Shampoo and Conditioner especially when you need a deep clean for your scalp. It refreshes and clears residue very well. I will definitely continue to use it for my monthly shampoo. I would also recommend using an oil on your scalp within a few days of using the product to help prevent drying and replace the oil until your scalp can produce it naturally.
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Thank you for reading!
Myrtle Beach Safari
Happy Fearless Friday!
I first want to say thank you to everyone who reads my blog posts. I really appreciate the support and welcome any comments or feedback. I hope everyone is doing well despite all the bs, From Covid to these fires, the racial injustice, a dumb ass president and this election. Its a lot and I truly hope everyone is taking care of themselves. Try meditation, a small vacay, or a massage and step away from the news and social media periodically.
Now, on to my new post!
About a month ago I visited “Doc” Antle’s Myrtle Beach Safari in South Carolina and I wanted to post about it to share my experience. Anyone who knows me, knows that I love animals so this was definitely on my bucket list. While it was a bit different because of Covid, I believe I was able to get a good feel for the environment, animals, and staff.
Overall, I’m glad I signed up for the experience and got a chance to met and touch the animals. Specifically, I reserved a spot for the Preservation Station Photo Encounter. I know there’s some controversy around the “Doc” Antle and Myrtle Beach Safari and the treatment/captivity of their animals due in part to the Netflix special Tiger King, but I have mix feelings about it. On one hand, I do feel animals deserve to be in their natural habitat, but on the other hand, let’s be honest, they’re not very safe due to the hunting and pouching, deforestation and other human activity. Over two thirds of the overall animal population throughout the world has been diminished due to human activity since 1970. Animals are a natural part of our world and deserve to have a safe place just as we do.
Myrtle Beach Safari seems to really care for the animals there and to be quite honest. People also argue that these animals are being exploited for money and denied the healthier option of living in their natural habitat. While I believe this is true to a certain extent, these animals did seem very happy and appear healthy. The young monkey in my picture was so happy guys. I mean he just smiled and played the whole time. I seriously wanted to take him home. And let’s be clear, it takes a lot of money to care for these animals. The price I paid ($100) to sit with them and take pictures doesn’t even pay for one days worth of food for tigers.
Also, just so you have an idea, there was a hostess walking around with a baby tiger in a sling as I imagine to help it get familiar with human contact. The staff there really seems to care for the animals and I can tell they spend a lot of time with them. The baby tiger I met was half sleep. I’m not sure if they intentionally bring them out during nap time or they give them something that makes them sleepy to ensure they’re less active. It definitely makes it easier for the pictures. If you take a look at their pictures on instagram or even mine, they are all great pictures. I thought for sure it would be more difficult but they have this down to a science. So if all you want is good pictures, you won’t be disappointed. I was even able to see “Doc” Antle come into the lounge while we were finishing up our session. I wasn’t able to talk to him or get a good impression of him however.
For our encounter, we were able to sit with three different animals. The white tiger is my favorite so being able to see and touch a cub was something I’ve always wanted to do. They have a wide range of animals there if you visit for the actual safari. From Eagles to elephants to cheetahs. I’m thinking about visiting again for a night safari. I would love to get up close with more of their animals. Overall, I recommend experiencing Myrtle Beach Safari yourself. Form an opinion afterwards. My experience was good and I would go again.
A Hike to Remember...
March 27th, 2020
It’s been a while! I’ve been a bit busy with school, motherhood, running a business, etc. Life has been full of experiences, ups, downs, blessings, and unexpected curve balls, but I have so much to be thankful for. I have a recent experience I wanted to share. It may not be what you’re expecting but I think with everything that’s going on in the world, it’s a great time for everyone to try something new or overcome a fear that you have.
On a recent and rather routine hike, I had an unexpected flush of fear come over me. I was hiking at Runyon Canyon this past Sunday. A hike I’ve done probably 50 times at least. I must also mention that I have not been hiking much lately because I’ve been quite tired and haven’t had much energy. My doctor says I’m anemic and I’ve been making an effort to add more iron to my diet.
Runyon was expected to be crowded with it being one of the few things the people of LA can still do with this epidemic going on. As usual, I had my over the ear Beats headphones on that scream ‘leave me the hell alone’ lol. Normally I climb the steep East Ridge Trail up the mountain and down the paved trail and this time was no different. This is how I get the most out of this hike because my heart gets a really good workout in the beginning and I can jogged down the mountain if I’m up for it.
So I came to the steepest section that has become so smooth and hazardous with all the traffic and I started slipping with almost every step. With my heart rate already elevated from climbing and my legs becoming shaky, I had to stop and fear (of heights, falling and injury) literally took over my entire body and I could not move for at least 5 minutes as people continue to climb around me. I have never experienced this much fear while hiking but I seriously thought if I moved another inch, I would roll down this mountain and seriously injure myself. I looked down at my legs which were shaking and I realized the shoes I had on would not get me up this hill at least not without sliding and falling to my knees.
After 5 minutes or so of deep breaths and pep talk (in my head), I was able to sit down and face the amazing view of Beverly Hills. I sat there enjoying the view and thinking about what to do next. Either I could give up and try going back down the hill which I would run the same risk of falling but on my ass lol. Or I could keep going up anyway. I looked around at others having trouble and slipping as well. I saw some strong men coming past and I thought, maybe if I ask one of them, they’ll help me. But then, being my normal independent self, I couldn’t bring myself to ask anyone. So I sat there for at least about 30 minutes calming down, regaining stability and thinking about my next move.
Then I thought to myself, I’m going to make it up this mountain somehow. What about taking my shoes off and going barefoot, taking it back to what God gave me? I thought about the fact that our feet actually have striations and other characteristics that allow us to walk the earth just fine without man made shoes. I also thought, wow, there are so many people here. They’ll look at me like wtf is she doing barefoot, lol. But hey, why gaf what these people think?
I took my shoes off and tied them up, took a couple deep breaths again, got up and kept climbing…..shoeless. With every step, I gained back the confidence in myself I seemed to have lost somehow 30 minutes ago. I didn’t slip even once and I realized I have everything I need within myself to get through any situation I’m presented with. Through the stares, I just smiled anyway because it felt good not to give up. So I made it to the top where everyone is taking pictures and enjoying the view. And just like any other goal or desire, once I have decided to go for it, consider it done!
Lately, I’ve been feeling like life just ain’t really what it used to be. I can’t be the only person to feel this way. Anyone else just feel like there’s this dark cloud hanging? Well I’ve committed to doing more of what makes me feel alive and vibrant. Hiking is one of those things.
Do more of what you love people! It’s one of the best things we can do right now! Ain’t no Coronavirus stopping me either.
Thank you for reading…
Signed,
Shygirl
My Incredible Santorini Trip
Santorini was breathtaking!
Santorini, Greece 🇬🇷
Happy Fearless Friday, the 13th!
Wow! This vacation truly left me speechless and although it was my best trip yet, it took me time to work up the energy to share my experience for this one. Just to give a little bit of background, Santorini is the site of one of the largest volcanic eruptions in history which happened over 3,500 years ago. This eruption is what caused this island to be shaped like a ring with the remnants of the volcano 🌋 in the middle. The breath-taking beauty of Santorini was directly caused by a volcanic eruption thousands of years ago…how crazy is that? The best time to visit is late Spring, Summer and early Fall and any time other than that is considered down season. In fact, many business may even close during down season. We went at one of the best times, early Summer before the island became over-crowded.
I have to mention that this was my first trip overseas to Europe so I was super nervous because of all the uncertainties involved. How will I get around, currency, the people, safety, communicating with family/friends during my 9 day trip, etc. BUT, of course everything worked out fine with a little research.
The flights to Santorini usually involve a connection, mine happened to be in London. I thought I’d be able to leave the airport and make it to London Bridge, but it was such a headache trying to get service and an Uber, I gave up lol. I really wish we could have made it out to see at least some of London, but I didn’t research enough prior. When we arrived to Santorini, it was very easy getting a taxi to our hotel. The airport is pretty small but has everything you need just like most airports. We stayed at a hotel named Agave in Imerovigli not far from Fira, the main city. It was a boutique hotel, with breakfast provided everyday which helped with my budget for the trip.
One of the first restaurants we tried after arriving was “Rare Meat Restaurant” in Imerovigli. Very original name, I know, lol. It was literally around the block from Agave and after a long day of traveling, we needed something close by. I tried the lamb, it was very interesting to say the least, but definitely not something I would have again😬. After dinner, we passed out and did not wake up until maybe 10-11 hours later. It was so hard waking up for breakfast the next day. It was one of the weirdest experiences ever for me because although my body got more than enough sleep, I was still soooo tired. Anyone who knows me, knows that I need 8 hours of sleep 😴 for proper functioning, but I’m not sure if it was because of the traveling/jet lag or time difference, but despite getting so much sleep my body could barely get out of bed and we woke up about 10 minutes before breakfast ended. Luckily, the hotel staff was very nice to fix us breakfast despite being a bit late. Kudos to them for their hospitality!
I was actually pleasantly surprised with the daily breakfast. Of course it was a bit different than what we were accustomed to, but there were some similarities. Eggs are a staple here, but so are a variety of breads/pastries and cold cut meats. I made it a point to eat breakfast at the hotel just about everyday because I knew lunch and dinner would be the most anticipated meals for me to try something entirely new. Also, sticking to my budget was important. Having breakfast with that view every morning was like a dream, so peaceful.
We decided renting an ATV would be the best way to get around the island and boy were we right. It was so much fun to be able to move around pretty quickly, feel the breeze but also stop anywhere we wanted to enjoy the view. I highly recommend this way of getting around as it takes less than an hour to get from the north end to the south end of the island. There’s one main road that takes you from the top to the bottom so it’s really not hard to get around. Just make sure you have wireless service just in case. Have you ever seen that Rick Ross video “Santorini Greece”? Well, we made it a point to visit some of the sites from the video. That doorway off the cliff was one of the first stops we made on our second day on the island. Such an amazing view, but that’s basically anywhere on the island to be honest 🤷🏽♀️. We easily drove the entire island in about an hour and had plenty of gas to spare. That evening, we stopped at the beautiful Othodox Metropolitan Cathedral in Fira which is the largest church on the island. This was one of my favorite views of the sunset. There are so many small shops and restaurants nearby as well to visit.
The Food: I must say the food was pretty amazing. We had dinner at Aegeon just steps from the hotel on the second night. This spot was great for authentic Greek food and the desert was the best part in case you didn’t know I have a sweet tooth 🦷. The next night we tried Skaros Fish Restaurant where I had an entire sea bass with a Greek salad 🥗. Man, that salad was delicious and I became hooked from that day forth. A salad with no lettuce but feta cheese, green peppers, tomatoes, red wine vinaigrette, red onions, olives, and oregano….soooo good. Santorini is well known for their wine, so wine-tasting at Santos Wines Winery is something you must do when visiting. I was completely blown away with their Vinsanto wine and there’s a crazy view off the back patio. At the north end of the island, we tried Dimitris Ammoudi Taverna where I got to pick out my own prawns. To have dinner on the edge of the water was definitely an experience, but make sure you’re careful not to fall in because there’s no railing here, just rope. The view of the sunset 🌅 was amazing at this spot as well. Now I know that being from the Chicago area this next bit of info might be hard to believe, but until this trip, I had never tried a Gyro. I know, I know, how the hell have I not tried a gyro 🥙 before? Well, I got to try one here and I actually enjoyed it. If you’re in Greece, I think it’s necessary to have a gyro at least once right? At Da Vinci in Thira, I tried their calzone which was also really good.
Night Life: The Pure in Fira is a nice night spot if you want to have drinks and hookah. Fira is the main city and seems to have most of the night life if that’s something you’re looking for. Honestly, Santorini is more of a chill vacation that might be best for couples looking to enjoy a view, good food, wine, some culture while relaxing. Oia, on the north end of the island, also seemed to have nice night life options.
We booked an excursion that included a stop at the volcano, hot springs, and a sunset sail. If you’re doing any type of sailing trip, you have to go down this sharply curved road down the cliff. This was the scariest moment of the trip for me because you’re in this huge coach bus driving down a sharp hill with these tight curves 😳. This trip included a tour of the volcano and I’m not sure if I was the only one a bit uneasy about walking along a volcano, but I did it anyway. I didn’t make it very far however, because it was a little too hot and I wasn’t really prepared. However, I do recommend seeing the volcano and hearing about the history. The hot springs were nice as well, but it didn’t really make much sense to me at that time on a hot day 🤷🏽♀️. The sunset sail was so nice and relaxing. I wouldn’t go to Santorini without including some type of sailing trip in my plans because seeing the island from another view is amazing as well.
On the South end of the island, there’s the Red Beach. This is another must see and although there’s a hike to get there, it’s definitely worth it in the end. Bring your swimming shoes because there’s no sand, only rocks but don’t let that discourage you from experiencing this spot because it’s crazy!
And then there’s the instagram-worthy blue domed churches. Before I arrived, I had no idea there were some many churches with blue domes. These churches are pretty easy to find, but getting to the right spot to take a great picture is not. Thankfully, we stayed in Imerovigli which is directly next to one of the best spots to get this great shot. You will have to take stairs and possibility trespass to get the exact view you’re looking for 😬. Maybe hop a fence or two, lol.
In the end, my fear of heights didn’t stop me from visiting Santorini and as I’ve said before, the things you’re most scared of usually end up bringing the most joy and peace. Sort of like your fear is the storm before the calm. The people were very nice and hospitable, the food was great, and there was such a calm peaceful vibe. If you haven’t been, I highly recommend visiting. I had such an amazing time and it truly was a once in a lifetime trip.
Until next time…
Signed,
Shygirl
Tulum
August 9, 2019
Happy Fearless Friday!
I’m back with another travel post and I’m super excited to share my experience and thoughts about my recent trip to Tulum, Quintana Roo, Mexico. I have to mention that I’ve been to Cancun before and even saw the Tulum ruins on that trip about 3 years ago, but I’ve heard so many good things about Tulum that I wanted specifically take a trip here as I’ve heard it’s very different from Cancun.
I arrived in the evening via the ADO bus from the airport and had to take a taxi from the station to Tulum. It’s also worth mentioning that a translation app is necessary as most people only speak Spanish including the taxi drivers. It took about 3 hours to get from the Cancun Airport to Tulum. Also, make sure you exchange for Pesos prior to getting to Tulum, because it can be a bit of a hassle if you wait. Patience is a virtue people lol, because the trip to Tulum from the airport seemed so long. But it is definitely worth it, I promise!
Acacia Tulum
Where I stayed:
The first couple nights I stayed at Acacia Tulum. Its on the outskirts of the town pretty much in the jungle, but gated. The grounds have about 5 separate huts with a nice common are right in the middle of the property with wifi of course. A hut with air conditioning, kinda crazy right? I loved it as soon as I arrived and I was greeted by Billie the property’s pit bull/protector who was so playful and sweet. Bikes were included with the stay and I definitely recommend finding a spot that provides bikes because it can be the best way to get around the town or even to the beach. Taxi drivers were so inconsistent, it was hard for me to know if I was getting a fair price..
For the last four days of my trip, I stayed at the Highline Tulum which is a newly developed building with an infinity pool on the roof. I loved the pool, it was so relaxing swimming while enjoying the view. It was really nice, but the location wasn’t very accessible to the city or beach even though it’s located in between both. You would need an rent a car or be willing to ride bikes for at least a mile to get out of the area.
The Food:
Hartwood
Hartwood - Let me start by saying that this was one of the best meals I’ve had ever! My drink- I tired an Ixchel which has mezcal cucumber pineapple, so different from any drink I’ve had and very tasty 😋. Their menu changes so often that they keep it on chalkboards throughout the restaurant. I know it sounds weird for an upscale place but I was digging it. The Ceviche?! 🔥I had the skirt steak with mash potatoes again some of the best mashed potatoes! I’m not sure what they do to them but I couldn’t stop eating them. And last but not least the Honey pie with camomile whip cream 🤯. This spot is a must try if you visit Tulum.
MurMur - This was a bit of a blur because to be quite honest, I may have been under the influence, BUT I do remember the chicken and Brussel sprouts were really good. This place is one of the really good spots to eat in along the beach.
Burrito Amor - This spot was not far from the Tulum Center in the city. Its a great spot to grab breakfast or lunch and not break the bank. The burritos here are great! Chipotle who?! LOL. My sea bass burrito was amazing! 😋 make sure you add lime! Oh and I also had the breakfast burrito bowl with eggs and Pico de Gallo 😋😋. Yes, I made multiple trips here. It’s worth mentioning that I’m not a much of a burrito eater but I loved this spot.
Rosa Negra - This place was always live every night if you’re looking for a cool night spot for drinks and music! Whenever I passed this place, there was something going on whether it was great music or everyone had sparklers, etc. Great spot to have a little fun.
ARCA - This place is very interesting and their menu was a bit hard to navigate, but it could definitely be great for some I’m sure. But I also did not get full and had more than a full corse meal. The roasted bone marrow was interesting, but it was just ok for me. The soft shell crab was pretty good and probably my favorite part of the meal. The dessert selection was very limited so I actually didn’t try any of the options.
The Beach/Beach Clubs:
Coco Tulum Resort
Coco Tulum - A hotel/resort on the beach that has a beach club, beachside bar, and a spa. This place was really nice and I loved the white painted wood and bright decor.
Azulik
Azulik Tulum - A beach front resort with a tribal concept with crazy decor and a great vibe. It’s a little expensive, but I would recommend at least stopping by to have a drink. Prepare to be amazed.
The hotel zone has a totally different vibe than the city center. I recommend experiencing both. The hotel zone has a bunch of hotels, resorts, restaurants, and shops. This area is a bit touristy but it’s really nice and has a very fell good vibe. The city offers more culture and more of a variety of restaurants and authentic Mexican food.
“South African artist Daniel Popper, known for his massive figurative sculptures, has constructed a new artwork as part of an arts and culture festival in Tulum, Mexico. The towering installation is titled Ven a la Luz (come into the light), and is comprised of wood and rope formed into a female figure. Her torso is filled with lush green plants, which creates an archway for viewers to walk through.” - LAURA STAUGAITIS
Landmarks and tours:
Tulum Ruins
I visited Chichen Itza City on a tour and its definitely worth the drive from Tulum. It’s truly amazing what the Mayans left behind. This is where you can learn about the Mayans and the significance of the Kukulcan pyramid and other buildings of Chichen Itza. Next we stopped at Valladolid, a larger city between Chichen Itza and Tulum. I did a little bit of shopping and was able to see the local culture and architecture. On the same tour, I visited the Suytun Cenote. This Cenote has a platform right in the middle of the cave which provides a very instagram worthy setting. I wasn’t very happy to visit in the middle of the day when it was very crowded so I couldn’t get the shot I wanted, but oh well. It was still worth the trip. Cenotes are a must see when visiting Tulum and there are many to choose from. I would also suggest the Car Wash Cenote not far from Tulum. Turtles tend to come out there around 4-5pm when the people leave. The Tulum Ruins are close and worth a trip as well. My favorite part of this site is the iguanas that live there, they’re everywhere lol. Also, the view from the shore is amazing.
Kukulcan of Chichen Itza
Tulum is very unique and has some many great things to see. I had such an amazing time and I plan on going back soon. Maybe because it’s a jungle by the beach with so much history. I definitely recommend finding out what “all the hype” is about.
Signed,
Shygirl
P.S. the summer is a great time to go if you don’t like crowds. It can be hot, but it was worth it for me. After all, us introverts will ask “Who all in there?" before going into the pearly gates of heaven lol.
Exploring Nearby Places
June 14th, 2019
Location: Los Angeles Area
Happy Fearless Friday!
For this Blog post, I decided to do something a little different. I was having one of those days or should I say couple of days where I felt like taking a drive to clear my mind. Over the last year or so, I fell God has been pushing me to reach my highest potential with certain occurrences and blessings. I have been forced out of my comfort zone and I know it’s time that I take the first steps necessary to achieve certain goals I have. Even though I’ve come to these realizations, it doesn’t mean I’m in the clear and I don’t struggle with my thoughts from time to time. The things I do during these times are normally take hikes/walks and/or drives alone. I think it’s necessary from everyone to have their escapes from everyday life.
My first stop: THE FRIENDSHIP BELL in San Pedro
While I was driving past, something compelled me to stop and have a look. On my way to see something totally different, I come across this huge structure obviously not from here. I had never seen or heard anything about it.
History - This land mark overlooks the Pacific Ocean and was given to the US as a gift from the Republic of Korea in 1976. It was given to further the friendship and trust between the two nations.
If you’re from LA, have you ever seen or heard about this? Please leave a comment. I’m very curious to know.
My second stop: THE SUNKEN CITY in San Pedro
History - A landslide in 1929 caused several beach homes to sink into the Pacific Ocean. In all, about 40,000 square feet of land was lost. Some of the debris ended up on the shore which is now called “Sunken City”. Over the years, visitors have left their mark tagging and painting the concrete and trees. It gives you a bit of an Erie feeling to see ruins while standing there in front of the beautiful view of the Pacific Ocean.
For me, it was a great place to sit and reflect. I have to worn you that this site is gated off and it’s consider trespassing for your safety so if you do visit, be very careful. Contact me if you would like to know how to get it in. 😉
I think everyone should be open and receptive to learning about or exploring something new regularly. I’m sure there are plenty of interesting finds like this across the country. Why not go out and take a drive?
*Plays “Ride” by Groove Theory*
Signed,
Shygirl
My List of the Most Incredible Beaches! ….So far
Location: Various Locations
Summer is almost here, so I thought I’d share my list of favorite beaches!
#1 - Trunk Bay on Saint John island which is part of the United States Virgin Islands. The sand is so white, the water is so clean and blue, the overall feeling there is so peaceful and serene. They have some amazing marine life for snorkeling as well. You won’t find a better beach within the United States for sure……trust me! You won’t find large crowds here normally and you have to take a fairy to get to the island, so it almost feels like you’re on a private island which was so refreshing for an introvert as you can imagine. The scenery of Trunk Bay is what brought me there, but the overall experience is what captivated me!
#2 - Red Beach, Santorini, Greece 🇬🇷 - OMG, guys! This beach was amazing and being that is was actually “red”, I had to see it. It’s not close to hotels or resorts so you have to travel to get there. You also have to hike to get there and if you know me, you know I love a good hike! Once you’re there, you’re in awe. Red rocks everywhere, but clear water! If you go to Santorini, this is a must see! Thank me later!
#3 - Tulum in Mexico 🇲🇽 is breathtakingly beautiful and must see as well! There are ruins right near the beach which bring about an indescribable feeling and it’s so peaceful and bright.
#4 - Seven Mile Beach, Grand Cayman Islands...boy was this beach just what I needed at the time! Very relaxing! Gorgeous with warm water of course with many cute crabs walking around lol.
#5 - Negril, Jamaica 🇯🇲 is also one of my favorites. I went more than 10 years ago so I’m speaking on an old experience, but it’s so relaxing and beautiful. If you go to Jamaica, go see Negril!
#6 - South Beach Miami despite the eye candy and absurdness you might find amongst the humans you may encounter, Miami beach is still amazingly beautiful and the water is warm! Plus people-watching here has to be one of the most entertaining!
#7 - Puerto Rico’s beaches are also on my list! Like other Carribean beaches, the water is warm and the people are beautiful. When I visited Puerto Rico, it was during spring break for a girls trip with my cousin and friends. We decided to ride on one of those banana boats being pulled by a speed boat and boy was that an experience in itself, lol. One of the girls keep urging the driver to go faster and sure enough we all flew off. I had to swim to my cousin how was in a panic and cannot swim, but in the end, we have an amazing time! I got to see where my grandfather/family lived and died so yes I’m part Boriqua 🇵🇷 😉.
I’m going to add more and make changes to this list as time goes on, I’m sure!
Signed,
Shygirl
Fun...in an Unexpected Place
Louisville, Kentucky
“Impossible is just a big word thrown around by small men who find it easier to live in the world they’ve been given than to explore the power they have to change it. Impossible is not a fact. It’s an opinion. Impossible is not a declaration. It’s a dare. Impossible is potential. Impossible is temporary. Impossible is nothing.” – Muhammad Ali
The birth place of the GOAT did not disappoint even though, honestly, I was not looking forward to visiting. This trip was taken because of a new job, in my chosen profession, Healthcare Administration, but I was not happy about a conference trip. I was super nervous and it probably showed. Plus, I would be the only black person in our group and you know these types of settings aren’t the most settling I should say. And the Kentucky Derby??? Don’t get me wrong, I love animals, therefore, I love horses 🐴 . But I wasn’t really interested in watching races/gambling my hard earned money and dressing up wearing big hats. I wasn’t looking forward to being forced to be “social”.
We arrived on a Friday and went straight out to our first night at Churchill Downs. That night, dinner drinks and conversations with new people. I have to admit, it was nice seeing everyone, including my people, dressed up having a good time and hearing the excitement after each race. I even put in my bet for a couple races just for the fun of it. The food was really good, drinks were too. The Kentucky Derby was definitely more than what you see on TV, I guess that’s why many people even celebrities attend. Not bad at all.
The following day was the first day of the conference which was as it should be, boring and exhausting for an introvert. But that night we had dinner at one of the best restaurants in Louisville, Proof on Main. The food was really really good and so was the service! I also enjoyed meeting the people I normally only speak with remotely. There was a nice mixture of personalities at the table that always helps me stay entertained. Next, we did a little bar-hopping to end the night.
The next day, I was able to squeeze in a visit to Jim Beam Still House for bourbon tasting. This brought on my love for Jim Beam Apple, straight, might I add! Also, had to buy a couple souvenirs where I met Kernel Sanders and saw some street art of jockeys 🏇. Louisville was full of history and southern culture. I loved how proud the city was of Muhammad Ali. There was some type of tribute almost anywhere you went. I have to say I liked the vibe there, but I probably wouldn’t want to live there because of the racist history, just being honest. 🤷🏽♀️
The best part of the trip, however, was our trip to the Louisville Mega Cavern for zip-lining. It was my first time zip lining and it was amazing. At first thought, it seemed scary to zip line thru dark, sometimes pitch black caves, but I must say it was so much fun and I would definitely recommend it to anyone visiting Louisville. There were some platforms we had to climb in the middle of these caves very high up, no railings and a little shaky but if you can get past it, you’re in for the ride of your life! The Louisville Mega Cavern has the world’s only fully underground zip lines 10 stories below ground level. It was once a lime stone mine that became abandoned and turned into this zip-lining attraction. Those caves were definitely a bit eerie and I’m going to pretend I don’t see those orbs in our group photo. 😳
But basically, don’t go to Louisville without visiting the Muhammad Ali Center and the Louisville Mega Cavern for zip-lining!
Signed,
Shygirl
Why Introverts should do Coachella or any Festival
Location: Coachella, CA
Since festival season is upon us, I thought I’d share some insights from an introvert’s perspective. It took me some years before I even considered going to Coachella or any festival. When it was brought up, I’d immediately dismiss the thought being that I don’t like large crowds. I had a couple conversations recently with people who don’t have much of an interest in going to Coachella or any festival for that matter. I’m here to tell you…..go!
I finally went to last year’s #Coachella2018 or should I say, #Beychella2018, and the experience was indescribable to say the least! The energy was amazing! Beyonce’s performance was the best I’ve ever seen and there were so many artists to cater to every genre interest out there. Another one of my favorite performances was Vince Staples (snippet provided on my IG). The energy, the displays, and music was amazing live! Artists truly bring their best to Coachella and it shows. I was also introduced to one of my now favorite artists 6lack while there. I saw most of my favorite artists like Jorja Smith, Jidenna, Post Malone (yea I said it), Miguel, Eminem, Cardi B, The Weeknd, and the list goes on. This was probably the best Coahella ever and it’s definitely worth the hundreds or even over a thousand you’ll spend depending on whether you want VIP or general admission. (sorry to admit it)
The food variety is also amazing! Want a drink? Of course there are many stands with alcoholic beverages. Charging stations, restrooms, water. You have everything you need to spend a whole day in the mist of music you love. If you are more reserved, quiet, or private, but love music like me, I would highly recommend going to a festival because it’s likely to be an amazing experience despite all the common negative aspects. Yes, there’s a lot of people, lines, heat, but the rewards like bomb ass music, performances, experiences, food and more make it well worth it! Lastly, if you like to people watch like me, it can be epic at festivals, lol.
Here are my do’s and don’ts for Introverts:
~Go with one or two close friends or a significant other. No large groups!
~Stay in an Airbnb, not a nearby hotel and definitely don’t do the onsite tents. You will need your quiet/alone time to recharge for the next day.
~Try new/different food items, there will be plenty to choose from.
~Blankets, collapsible bottles, sunglasses, bandanas, and whatever else makes you feel good in social settings *wink wink*
Don’t fear it, conquer it! Say, “I am Fearless” and have a great weekend!
Signed,
Shygirl